WHAT IS SCALES?
"You must be the change you want to see in the world" – Mahatma Ghandi
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The Scales is an exercise that unlocks our ability to create change where change has alluded us with other methods or thinking. This is especially beneficial for those who have suffered for many years without a productive way to address their issues. From the 2 hour personal sessions we offer, we have not had one participant go home without an agreed upon road map that deals with their issues in a productive, compassionate, safe, and freeing way. And we often hear from our participants that not only this road map addresses their issue but it also heals that person, her community, and adds to the planetary healing beckoning before us. Their world changes literally, starting with a shift from powerlessness to empowerment.
IS SCALES FOR YOU?
Do you have any nagging weight issues that all diets have failed to rein in? Our Scales exercise have shown the issue is not with the eating, but how eating is masking a deeper issue.
Do you have any boundary issues, at work or at home, whereby you feel dumped on, or that the work share balance is draining you? Our Scales exercise has shown the issue is not with the offending party, but rather what was once optimal in setting boundaries is now no longer true today, and our viewpoint of true safety has to shift first.
Are you seeking a love relationship but are often left holding the short end of the stick? Our Scales exercise has shown the issue is not with the absence of a worthy partner, but rather our expectations are at odds with reality.
Do you feel weighed down with people disappointing you? Our Scales exercise has shown the issue is not in that people fail to reciprocate in an expected way, but rather what we impute in others is interfering with our sense of equanimity.
Do you feel weighed down with chronic worries? Our Scales exercise has shown the issue is not with the triggering event, but rather how we worry as a form of mental insurance to brace ourselves against the unknown.
Do you feel you are unable to pursue your dreams, ending up instead in doing survival jobs? Our Scales exercise has shown the issue is not having to choose between living and existing, but rather how we have surrendered our true power, and are simply trapped by this known but outdated way of managing stress.
Do you struggle between eating healthy and eating happily? Our Scales exercise has shown the true struggle is in deriving our well being from an internal voice than an acquired voice.
Do you struggle between asking for help and feeling de-powered from doing so? Our Scales exercise has shown the struggle is more about holding onto a past sense of safety and having to give it up in order to acquire an updated sense of safety that is in touch with current reality.
HOW IS IT DIFFERENT?
We address problem-solving by not throwing resources at the level of symptoms. Rather, we address the highest root cause possible. For one drop of water at the root nourishes more than 100 gallons elsewhere. Using the Scales Exercise, we reveal the often hidden ulterior motives to our actions, a discovery of our inner experiential source that is causing the unsustainable turmoil of the outer experience. And based on the saying that a problem well-identified is a problem 90% solved, by uncovering the cause, a transformation solution is then almost self-evident.
We then reclaim our ability to be master of our own fate, illuminating the now obvious course that can now tack to a wind of long-term prosperity.
We are also different in that we don't smile away our past ('It's ALL good'), there is no leap of faith involved (such as leave it in the hands of some higher power), or do we require you to abandon any core thinking that has been part of your identity. In fact, the underlying strength in this exercise is in co-opting your core sense of survival. Most often our participants are surprised how they started the exercise with dread, but in 2 hours, end up with a profound curiosity with a hunger to find out more.
WHAT PARTICIPANTS ARE SAYING
"I am completely empowered again. I have regained my power. A power that never left me, a power I lost sight of" - Leah L, Fenton MI, Level 1-3.
"I think (this) can help a lot of people" - Nancy M, Alger MI, Level 1.
"It was a great process. They should teach this in school" - Louise A, Alger MI, Level 1.
"I feel I am closer to finding my true power. I think many people can benefit from the exercise. I find it to be eye opening" - Rose P, Davison MI, Level 1 to 3.
"(The process skills demonstrated) are valuable in validating the person and their experience"- Katherine B, Ann Arbor MI, Level 1.
"Excellent listening. Invites me to look inside and access deep wisdom"- Pat F, Ann Arbor MI, Level 1.
"Close listening that quickly uncovers the heart of the matter. (Facilitator) describes things in a humorous and piercing manner"- Percy E., Southfield MI, Level 1.
"This tool is the equivalent of One year of weekly therapy. More powerful than coaching. This work must continue and become global "- Linda R, Novi MI, Level 1.